A growing laissez-faire libertarian attitude toward social issues 
among Americans is arguably the most important weapon available to 
same-sex marriage advocates. Certainly there are LGBT militants with 
unwavering commitment to the issue, but the vast majority of those who 
“support” same-sex marriage can hardly be said to support anything. They
 just have a hard time saying no. They much prefer the sanitary hands 
off approach—let them live out their sexuality as long as I don’t have 
to get involved.
This laissez-faire attitude is often coupled with a heavy dose of 
biological determinism, which bestows a tacit scientific stamp of 
approval on any and all types of sexual behavior. Consider Lady Gaga’s 
popular song, “Born this Way,” in which she sings, “Cause baby, you were
 born this way, no matter gay, straight or bi, lesbian, transgendered.” 
She then encourages people to, among other things, embrace whatever 
sexual proclivities they have inherited.
The underlying message is that we as a society should just accept any
 and all manifestations of sexual orientation and sexual behavior 
because people are merely acting upon their God-given biological 
inclinations. The end result for those saturated in this cultural 
marinade is that they are afraid to refuse the designation of marriage 
to same-sex couples who are only doing what comes “naturally” to them.
There are two problems with this type of reasoning. First, it’s 
questionable whether sexual orientation is biologically determined. 
Second, even if genetic and developmental factors cause one to have 
same-sex attractions, it does not follow that one’s biology should 
determine one’s behavior, much less dictate one’s morality.
In the last twenty years, scientific research has failed to generate a
 consensus on the exact relationship between biological factors and 
same-sex attractions. But there is general agreement that 
genetic/developmental factors do have an influence.
In fact, there is good evidence that genetic and/or developmental 
alterations can lead to homosexual behaviors in animals ranging from 
fruit flies to rams. Genetic manipulations in fruit flies, for example, 
have produced female flies that display courtship to other females and 
males that display courtship to other males. Similar results have been 
found in mice, with one recent study
 showing that removing a single gene in females causes them to attempt 
to copulate with other females and to exhibit other male-specific 
behaviors.
Studies with rams have found that changes in pre-natal exposure to testosterone
 can cause structural changes in specific sexually dimorphic brain 
regions, changes that have been linked to homosexual behaviors.
While it seems clear that some animals can be “born this way,” things
 are much more ambiguous in humans. For starters, human sexual 
inclinations are much more complex and nuanced, as evidenced by the 
broad continuum of human sexual orientations and behaviors. Because of 
this, social scientists lack a clear consensus on what exactly it means 
to be gay, bisexual, or lesbian. Not only is sexual orientation in 
humans difficult to pin down—should anyone who has homosexual thoughts 
be considered gay—it is notoriously fluid, as an individual’s 
identification as gay, bisexual, or heterosexual often changes 
repeatedly over time. Both of these points are argued persuasively by 
psychiatrist Paul McHugh in his amicus brief to the Supreme Court in the Hollingsworth case.
Given these complexities, it should not be surprising that studies 
looking for a biological cause for homosexuality in humans have been 
equivocal, leaving plenty of room for social and environmental factors 
to influence sexual preference.
For example, no gene has yet been definitively linked to 
homosexuality. While some studies have found genes or chromosome regions
 that may be linked, follow up studies have reported contradictory results.
There is stronger evidence that developmental factors can influence 
homosexual behavior, but even here there are caveats. Women who have 
congenital adrenal hyperplasia (CAH) are exposed to higher levels of 
male sex hormones in utero and have a higher propensity to exhibit homosexual behavior as adults.
 Still, the majority of these women are heterosexual and only a small 
minority of CAH females is exclusively homosexual, indicating that other
 factors, most likely social ones, are at work.
Likewise, there is evidence
 that having an older brother increases the likelihood of homosexuality 
in boys. Researchers hypothesize that the mother produces an immune 
response to male-specific antigens in the first pregnancy, a response 
that can disrupt normal development in later male pregnancies. Again 
though, most men with an older brother are heterosexual and many 
homosexual men have no older brothers, so this hypothesis is limited in 
scope.
Consequently, it’s not clear whether all people with homosexual 
inclinations, or even the majority, are born that way or if social and 
environmental factors shape their attractions. But even if one were to 
grant, in the face of ambiguous evidence, that Lady Gaga is right, it 
doesn’t follow that such behavior should be promoted and sanctioned by 
codifying same-sex marriage into law.
We are not at the mercy of our biology. This is what sets humans apart from the other animals. In a recent op-ed in the New York Times, titled
 “Nature’s Case for Same Sex Marriage,” biologist David Haskell claims 
that homosexuality is natural in the trivial sense that homosexual 
activity occurs in nature. Yet, after highlighting the homosexual 
behavior of pygmy chimps and mallard ducks in an attempt to soften the 
resistance to same-sex marriage, Haskell had the good sense to realize 
that animal behavior “does not provide [us] ready-made moral guidance.” 
He could have made this even clearer by discussing the fact that chimps and orangutans satisfy their biological urge for reproductive dominance via rape and/or infanticide.
As primates, our sexual behavior is certainly influenced by our 
biology (this is true regardless of our sexual orientation). Yet the 
mere fact that we have a biological urge or tendency does not give us 
justification to act on it.
In fact, the legal and social framework of civil society is 
structured by the premise that we should keep our biologically-driven 
desires in check or channel them for the sake of the common good. For 
example, males have a biological tendency—it’s in our genetic make-up—to
 find pornography titillating. That doesn’t mean that our society should
 promote it or encourage its use. Evidence suggests that pornography use
 hurts our ability to form the stable committed relationships necessary 
to a productive, well-ordered society. Thus society has laws (though 
they are ever being eroded) that limit and restrict where pornography 
can be displayed and who can view it.
Likewise, the unfettered expression of the male sex drive, 
particularly by men who claim to have a biologically heightened appetite
 (addiction) to sex, is hardly beneficial to society. Just ask any kid 
growing up fatherless or any single mother abandoned by her child’s 
father. To prevent or mitigate these effects, our society has laws to 
counter these natural biological urges, laws against adultery, even 
though they are no longer enforced, and laws that require child support 
and alimony payments.
Clearly, having a biological predisposition or urge does not justify 
pursuing it, let alone justify promoting it as a society. The same holds
 true for same-sex marriage. Even if we eventually decipher a clear 
biological explanation for homosexual inclinations, we need to have a 
respectful debate about whether promoting and encouraging people to act 
on them benefits society as a whole.
In the case of same-sex marriage, there is an acute need for both 
open discussion and clear investigation of how promoting homosexual 
inclinations would influence the family, especially parenting. 
Unfortunately, most Americans avoid this kind of debate, because they 
have swallowed laissez-faire libertarianism and biological determinism, 
and because LGBT activists actively prevent the debate from unfolding.
 
